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Wednesday, 6 May 2026

WOYWW 883 The One About Neet

Neet, of Hickydorums blogspot died last week. Her cherished husband Chas let us know and has posted on her blog about her quiet and restful passing. She hadn’t been well for some months and spent Christmas in hospital, full of praise for the staff who looked after and who she instantly befriended.

That was Neet to a tee: befriending. And warm. And oh so craft talented. And rather enabling. Indeed her own blog bio suggests that she hopes to be an enabler…..

I guess you would call me a crafter. Mainly paprcrafting but I enjoy Friendly Plastic, Shrink Plastic, Melt Art, Clay and Jewellery making. I teach various workshops and demonstrate at shows (now totally independent - whoo hoo) and I get most of my pleasure from passing on to others what I have learnt myself be it from the internet, other workshops I attend or simply messing about myself. I like to think I am an "enabler" and so help people to become more confident in themselves and enjoy what they are doing. If they are making something like a book, canvas or a piece of art I encourage them to produce something which is different from that of the person next to them, or mine - ie with their own personal slant.

Of course, Neet enabled in a way that was entirely giving, helping others to acquire skill and improve their crafting confidence. How typical of her. I learned from her, and she enabled me in the other sense too, tuning me into Janet Klein’s designs and happily giving me ideas and suggestions. If I’d been another foot taller, I’d have asked her for wardrobe advice too, man was she a cool dresser and so casual about her look. 

Neet joined WOYWW in 2011 and until late last year, she contributed almost without pause. Always positive and so very humble about her teaching and demonstrating;’I guess you would call me a crafter’…. she really had a reputation, and I’m sure that her local group, Victoria Crafters will miss her just as much as her online community of friends will. 

I searched for Neet’s blog rather than typing in the url, and look what came up - even the AI Dolly knows her - 

Based on the search results, Hickydorums (often referenced as hickeydorums) is a blog and creative persona associated with Neet, an active participant in the online art journaling community.

I don’t know where Alvin and Alvira came from, but a Neet gave them life and giggles and I’ll miss their stories on her blog, I’ll miss her incredible modesty with all of her creations, and I’ll miss my giggling at her idea of an untidy Workdesk. I cherish our friendship online and the memories of meeting up at WOYWW crops. I miss reading that she drove into the nearby Barrow to post her blog because there is no internet at the holiday caravan. Dedicated. Another word that describes her. 

My heart goes out to Chas at the loss of his life’s love, and I hope that he finds some small comfort in the memories of the many friends that his lovely wife was surrounded by. 



14 comments:

  1. That’s such a wonderful tribute, Julia, to our friend, Neet.
    Take care
    Hugs
    Lynnecrafts 10 xx

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  2. Beautifully written Julia and I looked at her page biography too this week. I guess a few of us did. She was definitely an enabler and I love Lavinia because of her and yes I'm praying for Chas and all who loved her. Prayer hugs, Shaz in Oz. X 🙏🏻🤗❤️

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  3. Such a heartfelt Tribute to Neet thanks for sharing. Hugs BJ#11

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  4. What a beautiful tribute to Neet and her talents, in this wondrous blogging community that you created. Thank you and blessings!

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  5. Oh Julia you bring tears to my eyes with your fulsome tribute - Needless to say you've got her just right. Thanks go to you for starting WOYWW so we got to know her in real life as well as online. Love and hugs. Helen #1

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  6. Of all the posts, yours made me well up the worst. What a beautiful way to encapsulate a woman who would not be contained! She was a beautiful soul and my heart breaks for Chas. The world is a duller, less colourful place without Neet in it. Missing so many deskers this week. Much love to all.
    Mary Anne (3)

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  7. Beautiful thoughts Julia. Neet was such a lovely person and so willing to share her ideas with others. I'm sure her blog will continue to be inspiration for many crafters in the future. Happy woyww, Angela x5x

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  8. Well done on a fantastic tribute to Neet, absolutely perfect and really hit the mark. I laughed at the foot taller comment, oh me too and a few dress sizes down as well, she had an innate sense of style. Goodness she’ll be missed.
    Hugs LLJ 2

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  9. So beautifully put Julia. You captured the essence of our lovely Neet perfectly. She has left her mark on so many folk and that's all we can ask for in life. So many folk loved her and will miss her greatly. Hugs to you x x Jo 🌈

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  10. Such a beautiful tribute to Neet, Julia. You summed her up perfectly. She will indeed be sorely missed. Hugs. Sarah

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  11. What a beautiful tribute to Neet. The crafting community lost a true enabler, and your words capture that perfectly. The point about her modesty with all her creations really resonates. For anyone looking for local HVAC contractors or service professionals, there is a useful directory at https://hvacservice.io that covers service areas across the US.

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